Something happens when we talk about nonprofits. We change the vocabulary. We talk about mission, impact, community, service, and purpose, and all of it matters. But somewhere along the way, it becomes easy to act as though being mission-driven makes business strategy less relevant to a nonprofit.
It doesn’t.
That idea kept surfacing in my conversation with Dr. Kimberly Iozzi on Possibilities. Kim has spent more than 25 years inside mission-driven organizations as a leader, consultant, grant writer, and volunteer. She led Dress for Success Northern New Jersey and the Housing Authority of the Town of Newton, and today she is Vice President of Operations and Programming at the Morris County Chamber of Commerce. When I asked what she reminds nonprofit executives, she put it plainly:
“It’s a business. First and foremost, it’s a business.”
That doesn’t diminish the mission. It may be exactly what allows the mission to survive.
Heart Matters. It Just Can’t Do the Whole Job.
People rarely choose nonprofit work because they are indifferent to the cause. They care, often deeply, and as Kim and I discussed, that can be both a strength and a complication. When you are personally invested in the mission, the work becomes personal very quickly. Decisions, criticism, and setbacks all land differently.
Kim talked about learning to stop, breathe, and give herself enough space to see what was actually happening before reacting. She even borrowed the 24-hour rule from youth sports: give yourself a day before responding to something that stings, because the way we receive a message is often filtered through our own lens.
I loved that, because it applies far beyond nonprofits. Sometimes the strongest thing a leader can do is get far enough out of the weeds to see the organization again.
The Swiss Army Knife Problem
And nonprofit leaders have a lot of weeds. Kim’s president at the Chamber calls her a Swiss Army knife: grant writing one day, a board meeting the next, the financials after that. She sees that versatility as a superpower, and it is. It is also how you end up so busy doing everything that you no longer have the distance to ask the bigger questions. Where are we going? How are we growing? What has changed around us? What should we stop doing?
And one of my favorites: why us?
Why You? The Question Every Nonprofit Needs to Answer
This is where our conversation really hit home for me. When Kim works on a grant, one of the first questions she asks is simply, “Why you?” What makes your organization different from the one down the street that serves a similar population, pursues a similar mission, and is probably approaching many of the same donors? She compares it to Shark Tank. If you can’t articulate why you, why would anyone give to you?
The same question applies to the volunteers, partners, and board members deciding where to invest their time.
My version of the test is simple. Take away your logo and put another organization’s logo in its place. Does the story still work? If it does, you have a differentiation problem.
Different Is Better Than Better
This isn’t only a nonprofit problem. I have this conversation with businesses all the time. “Better” is incredibly easy to claim: we care more, we work harder, we provide better service. Great. So does everybody else. A better mousetrap is still a mousetrap.
Different is better than better. Different gives people a reason to remember you, choose you, fund you, refer you, and talk about you when you’re not in the room. For a nonprofit, that isn’t marketing fluff. It’s a business question.
“We Tried That Before” Is Not a Strategy
Another phrase from our conversation deserves its own moment: “We tried that before, and it didn’t work.” Kim hears it all the time, and maybe you do too. Her reply is worth borrowing: that was 20 years ago. Since then the audience has changed, the technology has changed, the way people give and take in information has changed, and so has the organization itself.
One thing Kim took from the COVID years was the forced willingness to try something different. Organizations that had always done things a certain way suddenly couldn’t. They had to pivot, experiment, and figure it out. Nobody needs another pandemic to force that kind of change, but every organization needs the willingness to keep learning. Trying something that doesn’t work is information. Refusing to revisit an idea because it failed under completely different circumstances is not.
I see this with many of my own nonprofit clients. They are risk-averse and change-resistant, and then they wonder why annual budgets keep declining while the market shifts under their feet. Trying, learning, and adapting are how organizations build resilience.
Mission-Driven Doesn’t Automatically Mean High-Performing
This one may be uncomfortable. You can put a group of genuinely good people in a room who all care deeply about the same mission and still not have a high-performing team. Shared passion isn’t the same as diverse thinking.
Kim intentionally looks for people who see things differently than she does, with different experiences, perspectives, and working styles, including people willing to tell her something she may not want to hear. She uses tools like the DISC assessment to understand those differences. If everyone around the table sees the organization through the same lens, eventually you start getting the same answers. Diversity of background alone doesn’t guarantee diversity of thought.
Getting Out of Your Own Way
That thread runs underneath this entire conversation. The ability to pause before reacting, to hear feedback, and to reconsider the thing you “already tried.” To accept that you don’t have to be the smartest person in every conversation, and to let somebody else’s lens change yours.
None of that makes a leader weaker. It makes the organization stronger.
Don’t Leave Your Business Brain at the Door
This was the moment I told Kim, while we were still recording, would be a soundbite. There is an enormous population of experienced executives reaching the point in their careers where they want to give back. They retire, join nonprofit boards, volunteer, and step into mission-driven work. And then, sometimes, they stop bringing the very expertise that made them so valuable in the first place.
As Kim put it, giving back doesn’t mean turning off the business side. If you have spent decades in finance, operations, marketing, HR, sales, technology, or strategy, that knowledge is part of what you have to give. Think about what that expertise would cost the organization to hire. Then think about what happens when you bring it into the room.
Mission and Business Are Not Opposing Forces
That is probably my biggest takeaway from this conversation. A nonprofit isn’t less of a business because its bottom line includes impact. There are still employees to support, money to raise, budgets to manage, stakeholders to understand, and teams to build. There is competition for attention and resources, a market that refuses to stand still, and people depending on the organization to still be there tomorrow.
Heart matters. Purpose matters. Mission matters. But none of them relieves a leader of the responsibility to build an organization capable of sustaining them.
The mission isn’t the reason to think less like a business. It’s the reason to get the business part right.
Key Takeaways for Nonprofit Leaders and Board Members
→ A nonprofit is still a business. Heart is essential, but it can’t do the whole job.
→ Be ready to answer “why you?” If a peer’s logo fits your story, you have a differentiation problem.
→ Different is better than better. “Better” is what everyone claims.
→ Revisit what you “already tried.” Circumstances change, and so do outcomes.
→ Build teams for diversity of thought, not just shared passion.
→ If you come from the corporate world, bring your business expertise with you. It is part of what you have to give.
~ Monique
Listen to the full episode of Possibilities with Monique de Maio wherever you get your podcasts. We talk about nonprofit leadership, differentiation, resilience, team building, the corporate expertise nonprofits may be leaving on the table, and what Kim wishes she could tell her 30-year-old self. And if you are ready for a conversation about where clarity is hiding in your own organization, explore [Strategic Advisor Sessions].


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